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Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual FantasiesSexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their
Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences.
Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies. In terms refreshingly free of jargon, he reveals how his profound new theory can be used to decipher a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behavior, ranging from ordinary preferences about positions in bed to flamboyant scenarios worthy of the Marquis de Sade. And yet, Dr. Bader's exciting new theory transcends the realm of individual psychology. Readers will come away with a radically new understanding of such issues as sexual chemistry and boredom, cybersex, pornography, and the differences in how men and women get excited. Both erudite and accessible, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies is an important landmark in the literature of sexuality.Binding Type: Paperback
Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin
Published: 01/18/2003
ISBN: 9780312302429
Pages: 304
Weight: 0.85lbs
Size: 8.40h x 5.50w x 1.00d
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Color: 14AWG-2 Lead
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Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2024
★★★★★ 4
Got me hooked UP!
Color: 14AWG-2 Lead, Color: 14AWG-2 Lead
This harness was easy to use long enough to reach all my lights and got me lit up in about an hour only because I had to drill holes for my lights themselves. The harness was super easy to use super easy to tie strap up, so it wouldn’t be seeing or keep out of the way of moving parts
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Reviewed in the United States on October 21, 2024
★★★★★ 5
Good value, nice kit, simple install if you are OK with auto wiring.
Color: 26Inch light White +Wiring Harness
This is my second purchase of this light system. It is a great value for the money. It is pretty darned bright. The wiring harness is complete and would make for an easy install as directed. I'm an EE, so I did some hacks on the system myself, I added some connections to the existing headlight circuit so I could slave the high beam switch to the light bar. Now the switch included with the system functions as an arming switch for the light bar, rather than a simple on/off function. Prior, to turn the bar on and off, you of course used the switch. Now, the bar is slaved to the high beams, so both bar and stock high beams come on using the stock light lever on the steering column, and bar and high beams turn off when you set the lever to low beams. This allows the bar to act as a complement to the high beams, and for you to control them with the high beam lever after arming the system to do so. Overall, a great setup and good product. This bar is installed on my 2000 Fourrunner, my first is installed on a 2003 E350 where I did the first high beam+light bar trick.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 20, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Wiring harness not included!
Color: 26Inch Light White, Color: 26Inch Light White
Replaced my 19 inch Nilight after 6 years. This 26 inch fits perfectly and is bright af. Outstanding product. Doesn’t come with wiring harness, but my existing one worked great. Looks awesome!
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Reviewed in the United States on March 18, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Brighter than my headlights on bright!
Color: 26Inch Light White
This Nilight 26 inch 540 watt 50,000 lumen Triple Row Driving light is the brightest light I've ever had on my truck.
I bought a kit to mount the light to my Grill Guard, just above the bumper. I can see deer just like daytime, at least two blocks before I get to them. I've never seen a light bar as bright. There are no cons if you ignore the fact that it comes without a wiring harness.
I definitely recommend this light bar!
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Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2026